How to get away that awful breakup?

Disclaimer: Everything written here is just my point of view.


I assume that everyone here has gone through a break up. 

However, it's been a preconception that the one who split the words first is the bad person. 

We should not be bias on a relationship  that the person who ask for a break up FIRST should take ALL the responsible.

Because what I see, the one who call it an end is the one who is more sensitive on what's going on, recognize that two person are not meant to each another any more, so why is their fault?

A typical break up happens and you are the one who call it an end?

I am sure that you're feeling awful, even though you know you've made the best choice, but you can't run away from the guilt because both of you might happened to have many wonderful memories. 

Fred not! No matter you are the one being ''breaked'' or the one who''breaked'' the ''up'', I am here to got you covered. wtfhaha.
Just follow the tips bellow and work on them. 
I am sure you will not be traumatized with your past relationship. 

1. Give yourself some time.

Most of the people have this preconception that forgetting someone is to stop all the contacts and stop seeing that person, stop texting, stop everything that relates to that particular person. 

I find that pretty reckless and that tactic is pretty useless. 

I stand on my point that giving yourself so time to miss, to text, to DO ANYTHING related to him/her, and reduce a bit in time and replace it with something else. 

And soon, you will found out that most of the time you waste on your ex had been replaced doing something else.

Don’t force yourself to get over your feelings; let them fade naturally.

2. LEARN WHAT’S APPROPRIATE.

Some guilt is appropriate and some guilt is inappropriate. 

One of the key breakup tips for getting past it has to do with learning which is which. 

For example,are you the one who caused the breakup? 

Did you uses your ex, cheat, or sleep with someone else?

If so, guilt is an appropriate response – but, again, none of this makes you a bad person. 

Remind yourself: you are only a human and human make mistakes. ( self- psycho wtf BOL )


Basically I only self-psycho myself that I am pretty. HAHA


3. Plan yourself a getaway. 

People say time heals everything. 

I say a quick getaway heals ANYTHING! 

Free yourself from all the social obligations and work. 

Plan yourself something, anywhere to go.

Movie, Coffee, Vacation, anything! 
Spend some quality time just you, and yourself.


Sometimes, getting lost will help you find yourself. 

4. INDULGE into something new.

There is so much thing to be pick up. Cooking classes, Yoga classes, computer classes..... 
Open your mind, arms, and heart to new things! 
Why lock yourself up? Knowledge has no boundaries! 


When you learned and masters new skill, your life change. 
You'll be in a different horizon. 
Believe it or not. 

5. THINK POSITIVE.

You must think positive, understands that breaking up is the best way to set you and your ex free from suffering on having different opinions and expectations on love.

6. be PATIENCE.

Remember, don't rush with feelings. 
Don't get yourself into another relationship when you're not done with the old one. 


Having a relationship is all about QUALITY, not QUANTITY. 
Do not fall for anyone when you're not ready to give 100% of yourself. 




P/s: Love when you're ready, not when you're lonely. 




xoxo.
byez.

Marilyn Monroe for a day!

I've been invited to the Astro IPTV Hollywood party.

And yes, it's a Hollywood themed party.
And I was thinking to dressed like Megan Fox, but then what's Megan Fox Significant icon eh?
Answer: Marilyn Monroe tattoo on her hand!

Yes. Marilyn Monroe!
And even Angeline telling me I should go as Marilyn Monroe!

Went all the way to Solaris Mont Kiara.

Thanks to my one-day boyfriend- Joel Wong for fetching and baby sitting me this giant baby. -.-''

 Before I turn out as Marilyn Monroe. Talking about why,
I am just pretty scare that I will be the only one that dressed up! YOU KNOW MALAYSIAN!

Everyone getting their foo except me. 

Beer anyone?

 

 Meet 4feet9, Audrey, but was too shy to say anything!
How to react when you see Ayumi Hamasaki?
This is the picture of me and Ayumi Hamasaki Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. haha!
And spot that pretty Minnie, she's Jolin.

Iron man? Ultraman? Wait. A.. America man?
Don't ask me, he seem familiar but I am not good with superheroes movie.
And spot my new cute friend Sherry! <3

Aww, the best dressed awards goes to the girl on my right. :(

Pitbull? They say he is. haha.

Jackie, why you so handsome today?

Sexyfailed case 1.

 Bloggers people! :)

Meet my new cute friend Sherry.

SEXYFAILED CASE 2.

Ok. I am seriously ugly with blonde and black brows.
FM.

Sexyfailed case 3.

BEST PICTURE OF THE DAY.
Guess what. I got the best dressed award! ALMOST.

Gone case 1.

Shocked cause requested to cat walk. ( Can I do a frog jump?)


Pretty bloggers and me.

Lady Gaga and HIS manager.

Rapper M&M haha.

Anita!

Sorry, my name is Marilyn tonight.

Storm, and Wolverine of the night!

Oh wait, let's take a picture with the Emcee of the night Adam!

Party ends and everyone got so much goodies bag.
I even win myself a laptop bag! *grins*
The first thing I went home? Watch Astro on demand!
I mean you guys should check Astro IPTV here. 
Not simple High definition and Astro only, but also voice, PVR, broadband and VOD!

 Wait, why I don't just become Megan Fox?
So I need not to buy the blonde wig! * wtfbbq* cost me damn it RM140. :'(

Last but not least, I present you this picture!

P/s: Sherry, you look like hello kitty!:)

xoxo
Good night! :)

You know what? I sucks BIG.

Basically, I should type a lot.
But I seriously don't know what to type.

Been there, done that, that's what I know.

But ain't I going to hurt myself again and again by giving you chance again and again?
Should I?

I've already give both of us a chance.
Give you a chance to patch this friendship back.

No, I can see no sorry in you.

I know, you need not to feel sorry.
Cause you're not sorry anyway.

You have your choice to ignore me.
But please, please don't give yourself any chances to talk to me ONLY WHEN YOU NEED ME.

It's so tiring to keep on concerning on someone, treating someone like they're everything, but yet getting cold texts and being treat like ''you're nothing that matters''


And guess what.
Let me just be that bad person.


Believe me, you never love me as a friend.
I am just someone/stranger who are there for you when you're lonely.
Other that that, I am nothing to you.

Because you have SO MANY FRIENDS right?
SO MANY.
And I've only have so little friends. SO LITTLE.

So little that every time I need you, you'll be no where.
And every time You need me, THERE I AM.

And what more to say.
You say this is the reason you distance me.
FM. 

Ok. And there now. Disparity of mentality.

Guess what, I am done with it.
They are right, why I want to argue with you once, twice and thrice ?
Why I am making myself like a mad woman?
After all, you're just you, I am just me.
We are not going to be WE anyway.

I should know that since the first day we met.
And I should not talk to you since the first day we met.
Because I foresee you're just another HER,
Who do nothing but hurts.

My life is damn good man, you need not to preach.
Because I smell the cynical and mean you.

Probably you are good and nice.
But you can't blame me being sensitive and think you that way, because
YOU HURT ME MORE THAN TWICE. TWICE BABEH. 

Patch back a friendship?
Ask yourself that are you still wanting this friendship SINCERELY.

Not that taking any advantage on me, or because there is no others with you when you're lonely.

You know what hurts the most?
Being treated like an asshole and saying that that's the best you gave. But watching someone else next to you having a much better you.

And hey, like I ask for it?
Admit it. I am just insignificant compare to HIMs.


xoxo.
You know who you are.

Winner of the Give-away!

Have you leave your comment for my previous give away contest?

I am so worry there will be no people take part from the start, but end out there is 7 contestant, and 2 of them is my classmates!

Anyhow, only one of them will walk away the tote bag!
Curious who will it be?
So do I!

So to be fair and equal...
I decided to let my iPhone apps ''Who buys the lunch'' to choose who shall wins the bag!!

Clockwise: 

Starting with BenDan, XueRen, SoulessCloudy, YiHan, ChezMin, LostCharmedAngel, and HuiBin. 

Click-click-click-click-click.

Ding-Dong! 

The Winner is.....

XueRen. 

Congratulations! 

Phew. Lucky I've got my app to help me out.
Or else I will headache who to give out the bag!

Hi Xue-Ren,
Please email me your full name, address and phone number to claim the bag!
YAY.


P/s: For those who didn't got themselves the tote bag, no worries! Stay tune for more give-away! :)


xoxo.
Toodle!

Eak. You wear the WRONG BRA! -.-

I know this is sensitive topic (OF COURSE I KNOW)
I just hope that you're here to learn something, not because of you are a pervert and looking for SOMETHING.

Girls, do you know why you're wearing bra?
Other than avoid showing off your nipples, it is also because to support your boobies from being saggy.
I mean, who wants a saggy boobs?

We ALL LOVE firm and upright, BIG boobs. ( Yes yes yes, I see you guys nodding vigorously) 

However, girls nowadays never taught by the mothers the importance of the bra and why we should wear a bra, HOW we should wear the bra.
At least my mom never tell me why and how when I was young.
She simply bought a bra from the wet market for me.
(And that's why I don't have the perfect shape of breasts *cry* ) 

THAT's why saggy boobs and ugly breast are with the people around us.
And that's why I'm here to do the sharing.
Wearing a right bra is not only the comfort issues, but also the health and appearance concerns.

Lady, have you
WEAR THE WRONG SIZE OF BRA?
Wearing a wrong size bra can cause discomfort.
Many people don't realize their bras are either too small or too big for their breast size.
Apparently is because of they are too shy to let other people knowing their breast size.
So they will end up either buying a bigger or a smaller bra.
All of these acts will actually make your breast growth abnormally.
This is why most Asian ladies have 4 ''breasts'' instead of 2.

It's important to know your bra size and chooses the right bra.
If you're not good in this, LET THE SALES PERSON help you!

It's nothing to be ashamed of.
But if you think having 4 breast is cool, be my guest!
I would rather die of embarrassment with the sales person helping me than having ugly ''4 breasts''.

Watch this video for a few couple of minutes to get to know more about correct way of wearing a bra.

Basically it's not only the cups and the band.
It's also about the strap.

Xoxo.
It's breast awareness month!
Get your right bra now.



Bye!

Buddy Smoothies.

Food Review:


Last Saturday, I was invited to a food review as a blogger.

Hi, I'm in the traffic jam. 

Rushing to Time Square just right after my tuition.

Buddy Soy Smoothies or Buddy Smoothies is the place!

It is located at Time Square, LG floor. 

( it's just right opposite Chatime fyi. ) 

Because I'm late, so I managed to tried some of the food only.

But they gave me enough surprises on my taste bud!<3

Kaya Puff and Coconut tart!
SO crispy even thought it's not served hot.

Cendol.
They never stingy on the amount of brown sugar. *yummmm*

I've tried the Sweet Corn, ABC and also the Cucumber too! 

I'm a Sweet Corn fans, but I never know that Sweet corn can be that good with Soy Smoothies!

The ABC is another adventure of my taste bud as it's soy base!

For the Evergreen Japanese Cucumber, as they are not stingy on the the ingredients, and I hate cucumber much...
Refreshing, but not my cup of tea!
( You can see how awful it turn when they are so generous on the amount of ingredients so I had too much  of cucumber bites. )

Look how cool is the promotion list they have!

Did I mentioned all their products are added in Soy? 

Soy bean are less fat, extra protein and fibre which everyone should include in their diet. 

I found out that Buddy Soy Smoothies are using all organic and home made soy! 

When I ask how they got their Tau Fu Fah done, they say they are using acid instead of gypsum! 

So much healthier! 

Most of all, Buddy Smoothies will be the choice because the place they serve the food and beverage is clean! 

I know I'm a weird but seriously cleanliness is actually a major factor for me to patronize any food stall/shoplet.

And Buddy Soy Smoothies is going to have another two outlet soon. 

One in Festival City and another one in One U!

What you waiting for?

For a price as low as RM2.80 with generous amount of ingredients, go for buddy smoothies now! :D

Visit them at 

http://www.buddysmoothies.com 

for more discount! 

:)

Picture credit to Jack!

Update:

See what people said about Buddy Smoothies! ( click to enlarge! )

xoxo. 

Toodle!